How to partner

From Crossing the Sacred Sea [Cruzando el mar sagrado] by Nathan A. Strait

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  1. () Sex differences in romantic love: an evolutionary perspective [p] [d] [u]
  2. () 6 signs that a partner would rather be with someone else: why a chronically disappointed partner can be bad for your mental health [u]
  3. () Love as a universal phenomenon: data from nine non-WEIRD societies [d]
  4. () The characteristics versus the 'myths' of romantic love [d]
  5. () The other significant others: reimagining life with friendship at the center [i]
  6. () Religious communication in interfaith romantic relationships: positive approaches to improve relationship outcomes [u]
  7. () Sexual orientation as a contextual frame for attractiveness judgments [p] [d]
  8. () Information experience within multispecies families: understanding shared life with companion cats and dogs [d]
  9. () Attractiveness: evolutionary influence [i] [d] [u]
  10. () Compassion-based resilience training (CBRT): a contemplative therapeutic intervention for self-regulation and cultivating loving intimate relationships [i] [d]
  11. () How to work with (almost) anyone: five questions for building the best possible relationships [i]
  12. () Is it bad to prefer attractive partners? [d]
  13. () Desire: an inclusive guide to navigating libido differences in relationships [i]
  14. () Loving someone with suicidal thoughts: what family, friends, and partners can say and do [i]
  15. () Rising together: how we can bridge divides and create a more inclusive workplace [i]
  16. Justin K. Mogilski & Todd K. Shackelford [ed] () The Oxford handbook of evolutionary psychology and romantic relationships [i] [d]
  17. David Boonin [ed] () The Palgrave handbook of sexual ethics [i] [d]
  18. () Shifts in partner attractiveness: evolutionary and social factors [i] [d]
  19. () Shifts in partner attractiveness [for women] [i] [d]
  20. () Women and men are the barometers of relationships: testing the predictive power of women's and men's relationship satisfaction [p] [d] [u]
  21. () Two essentials for a secure and stable relationship [commitment and minimizing the expression of anger] [u]
  22. () Marriage, monogamy, and moral psychology [i] [d]
  23. () Equal partners: improving gender equality at home [i]
  24. Arina Pismenny & Berit Brogaard [ed] () The moral psychology of love [i] [d]
  25. () Love for one?: romantic love and altruism in pair-bonds [i] [d]
  26. () Vices of friendship [i] [d]
  27. Todd K. Shackelford [ed] () The Cambridge handbook of evolutionary perspectives on sexual psychology [in four volumes: Foundations of evolutionary perspectives on sexual psychology; Male sexual adaptations; Female sexual adaptations; Controversies, applications, and non-human primate extensions] [i] [d]
  28. () The possibility of a duty to love [i] [d]
  29. () Proximate and ultimate perspectives on romantic love [p] [d] [u]
  30. () Getting to zero: how to work through conflict in your high-stakes relationships [i]
  31. () 5 research-backed ways to strengthen your relationship with your co-founder [u]
  32. () Managing the aftermath of infidelity: a sequential guide for therapists and couples [i] [d]
  33. () When is jealousy appropriate? [d] [u]
  34. Eric J. Silverman [ed] () Sexual ethics in a secular age: is there still a virtue of chastity? [i] [d]
  35. () Finding chastity in a secular age: chastity as a virtue of sexual autonomy [i] [d]
  36. () Why women hate stingy men [u]
  37. (/2024) Romantic love for a reason [i] [d]
  38. () Human mate selection: a multidimensional approach [i] [d]
  39. () Happily-ever after: self-marriage, the claim of wellness, and temporal ownership [d]
  40. () Loving someone with an eating disorder: understanding, supporting & connecting with your partner [i]
  41. () The perils of partnership: industry influence, institutional integrity, and public health [i]
  42. () Our right to the pleasure of falling in love [p] [d] [u]
  43. (/2024) Love, value, and reasons [i] [d]
  44. () Mediated intimacy: sex advice in media culture [i]
  45. () Effective biodiversity conservation requires dynamic, pluralistic, partnership-based approaches [d]
  46. () That's what she said: the language of sexual negotiation [d]
  47. () Creating an effective couples therapy practice [i] [d]
  48. () Personal relationships and intimacy in the age of social media [i] [d]
  49. () Well-being as value fulfillment: how we can help each other to live well [i] [d]
  50. (/2026) Helping couples on the brink of divorce: discernment counseling for troubled relationships [i]
  51. () Pairwise communication for innovation at work [i] [d]
  52. () The natural principles of love [d]
  53. Christopher Grau & Aaron Smuts [ed] (/2024) The Oxford handbook of the philosophy of love [i] [d]
  54. () The zen of you & me: a guide to getting along with just about anyone [i]
  55. Heidi Keller & Kim A. Bard [ed] () The cultural nature of attachment: contextualizing relationships and development [i] [d]
  56. () Editorial: Emerging principles of practice in couple and family therapy [p] [d]
  57. (/2024) Love and evolution [i] [d]
  58. () New sexism in couple therapy: a discursive analysis [p] [d]
  59. () What can studying designed marital argument interventions contribute to argumentation scholarship? [i] [d]
  60. Maria Borcsa & Peter Rober [ed] () Research perspectives in couple therapy: discursive qualitative methods [i] [d]
  61. () The gap between couple therapy research efficacy and practice effectiveness [p] [d]
  62. () A roadmap for couple therapy: integrating systemic, psychodynamic, and behavioral approaches [i] [d]
  63. () Affective arousal during blaming in couple therapy: combining analyses of verbal discourse and physiological responses in two case studies [d]
  64. James J. Ponzetti [ed] () Evidence-based approaches to relationship and marriage education [i] [d]
  65. () Relational construct psychology [i] [d]
  66. () Breaking negative relationship patterns: a schema therapy self-help and support book [i] [d]
  67. Gerald R. Weeks, Stephen T. Fife, & Colleen M. Peterson [ed] () Techniques for the couple therapist: essential interventions from the experts [i] [d]
  68. () Using shared journaling to practice communication skills with couples [i] [d]
  69. () Escalating, accusing, and rationalizing: a model of distortion and interaction in couple conflict [d]
  70. () The heart of the fight: a couple's guide to 15 common fights, what they really mean, & how they can bring you closer [i]
  71. () Getting married: the public nature of our private relationships [i] [d]
  72. () On romantic love: simple truths about a complex emotion [i]
  73. David Capuzzi & Mark D. Stauffer [ed] () Foundations of couples, marriage, and family counseling [i]
  74. () Empathic accuracy and aggression in couples: individual and dyadic links [p] [d] [u]
  75. () The social psychology of attraction and romantic relationships [i]
  76. () The therapy relationship: a special kind of friendship [i] [d]
  77. () Zen and the art of sex: examining associations among mindfulness, sexual satisfaction, and relationship satisfaction in dating relationships [d]
  78. () The awakened introvert: practical mindfulness skills to help you maximize your strengths and thrive in a loud and crazy world [i]
  79. () When love is not all we want: queers, singles and the therapeutic cult of relationality [i] [d]
  80. () The couple's grid: a tool for assessing interpersonal construction in couples [d]
  81. () Schema therapy with couples: a practitioner's guide to healing relationships [i] [d]
  82. () Safety as the hallmark of successful marriages [u]
  83. () The arts of together: social coordination as dyadic achievement [i] [d]
  84. (/2018) Does Buddhism support romantic love? [u]
  85. () An emotionally focused workbook for couples: the two of us [i] [d]
  86. () Couple and family therapy: an integrative map of the territory [i] [d]
  87. () Loving someone with PTSD: a practical guide to understanding and connecting with your partner after trauma [i]
  88. () Thinking and working relationally: interviewing and constructing hypotheses to create compassionate understanding [p] [d]
  89. () The problem is my partner: treating couples when one partner wants the other to change [d]
  90. () Which relationship skills count most? [d]
  91. () Working with identity and self-soothing in emotion-focused therapy for couples [p] [d]
  92. () Effects of relationship education on maintenance of couple relationship satisfaction [p] [d]
  93. () Love sense: the revolutionary new science of romantic relationships [i]
  94. () Why power matters: creating a foundation of mutual support in couple relationships [p] [d]
  95. () Silence is not golden: review of studies of couple interaction [d]
  96. () Mindful relationships [d]
  97. () Sliding versus deciding in relationships: associations with relationship quality, commitment, and infidelity [p] [d] [u]
  98. () Living & loving after betrayal: how to heal from emotional abuse, deceit, infidelity, and chronic resentment [i]
  99. () Loving someone with anxiety: understanding & helping your partner [i]
  100. () About self-marriage [u]
  101. () Forgiveness and reconciliation in emotionally focused therapy for couples: the client change process and therapist interventions [d]
  102. () Loving someone with Asperger's syndrome: understanding & connecting with your partner [i]
  103. () Building learning partnerships [d]
  104. () Common principles of couple therapy [p] [d]
  105. () Informing intimate partner violence prevention efforts: dyadic, developmental, and contextual considerations [d]
  106. () Anxious in love: how to manage your anxiety, reduce conflict & reconnect with your partner [i]
  107. () An evolutionary ecology of individual differences [d]
  108. (/2024) Emotional coherence and the great attachment debate [i] [d]
  109. () Mindfulness and acceptance in couple and family therapy [i] [d]
  110. () Going my way?: the benefits of travelling in the same direction [d]
  111. () Clearly we've only just begun: developing effective prevention programs for intimate partner violence [d]
  112. David S. Shepard & Michele Harway [ed] () Engaging men in couples therapy [i] [d]
  113. () Splitting and emotional regulation in partner violence [d]
  114. () The door is open... [u]
  115. () Enhancing emotionally focused couple therapy through the practice of mindfulness: a case analysis [d]
  116. () Supporting healthy relationships in low-income, violent couples: reducing conflict and strengthening relationship skills and satisfaction [d]
  117. () Compassion and healing in medicine and society: on the nature and use of attachment solutions to separation challenges [i]
  118. James L. Furrow, Susan M. Johnson, & Brent A. Bradley [ed] () The emotionally focused casebook: new directions in treating couples [i] [d]
  119. () Have you thanked your spouse today?: felt and expressed gratitude among married couples [d]
  120. () The science of trust: emotional attunement for couples [i]
  121. () Marriage and relationship education: what works and how to provide it [i]
  122. () Hurt feelings: theory, research, and applications in intimate relationships [i] [d]
  123. () Investigating spousal influence using moment-to-moment affect data from marital conflict [d]
  124. () Loving someone with borderline personality disorder: how to keep out-of-control emotions from destroying your relationship [i]
  125. () Psychological abuse in young couples: risk factors [d]
  126. () Could EFT have saved the Buddha's marriage?: a reflection on Beckerman and Sarracco [d]
  127. () Happy ever after?: a practical guide to relationship counselling for clinical psychologists [o]
  128. () Exploring the developmental potential of leader–follower interactions: a constructive-developmental approach [d]
  129. () Predicting marital adjustment from young adults' initial levels and changes in emotional intimacy over time: a 25-year longitudinal study [d]
  130. () Well connected: an unconventional approach to building genuine, effective business relationships [i]
  131. () Learning from each other: a portrait of family–school–community partnerships in the United States and Mexico [d] [j]
  132. () Relational aspects of mindfulness: implications for the practice of marriage and family therapy [d]
  133. Alan S. Gurman [ed] () Clinical casebook of couple therapy [i]
  134. () Long-term effects of social investment: the case of partnering in young adulthood [p] [d]
  135. () Voices of experienced meditators: the impact of meditation practice on intimate relationships [d]
  136. () Change processes in couple therapy: an intensive case analysis of one couple using a common factors lens [d]
  137. () Relationship connection: a redux on the role of minding and the quality of feeling special in the enhancement of closeness [i] [d]
  138. () Processing the therapeutic relationship [p] [d]
  139. () Partnering for greater success: local stakeholders and research in tropical biology and conservation [d]
  140. () The occupational transmission genogram: exploring family scripts affecting roles of work and career in couple and family dynamics [d]
  141. () Couple checkup: tuning up relationships [d]
  142. Mudita Rastogi & Volker Thomas [ed] () Multicultural couple therapy [i] [d]
  143. () Common factors in couple and family therapy: the overlooked foundation for effective practice [i]
  144. () The mindful couple: how acceptance and mindfulness can lead you to the love you want [i]
  145. () The three marriages: reimagining work, self and relationship [i]
  146. () Potential benefits of expressive writing for male college students with varying degrees of restrictive emotionality [d] [u]
  147. () Matches and mismatches: partners, perfectionism, and premarital adjustment [d]
  148. () Romantic partners' influence on men's likelihood of arrest in early adulthood [d]
  149. (/2015) Sex and the soul: juggling sexuality, spirituality, romance, and religion on America's college campuses [i]
  150. () Emotion-focused couples therapy: the dynamics of emotion, love, and power [i] [d]
  151. () Hold me tight: seven conversations for a lifetime of love [i]
  152. () A typology of domestic violence: intimate terrorism, violent resistance, and situational couple violence [i]
  153. () The couple checkup [i]
  154. () Love's garden: a guide to mindful relationships [i]
  155. () Splitting as a focus of couples treatment [d]
  156. Susan Sprecher, Amy Wenzel, & John H. Harvey [ed] () Handbook of relationship initiation [i] [d]
  157. () Intimate relationship as a spiritual crucible [u]
  158. (/2010) Gilles Deleuze & Félix Guattari: intersecting lives [i] [j]
  159. Raja Halwani [ed] () Sex and ethics: essays on sexuality, virtue, and the good life [i]
  160. () How to improve your marriage without talking about it: finding love beyond words [i]
  161. () Unyielding integrity: the key to creating next-generation transformational partnerships [i] [d]
  162. () The role of need fulfillment in relationship functioning and well-being: a self-determination theory perspective [d]
  163. () The Couples Emotion Rating Form: psychometric properties and theoretical associations [p] [d]
  164. () Partnerships for tropical conservation [d]
  165. () Mindful relating: exploring mindfulness and emotion repertoires in intimate relationships [d]
  166. () Romantic love: a mammalian brain system for mate choice [p] [d] [u]
  167. () Therapeutic alliances in couple and family therapy: an empirically informed guide to practice [i] [d]
  168. () Moving on: dump your relationship baggage and make room for the love of your life [i]
  169. () Self-disclosure in personal relationships [i] [d]
  170. () How I ended up in a happy relationship: women's process of successful partnering [d]
  171. () Physiology and interpersonal relationships [i] [d]
  172. () Organization of partner knowledge: implications for liking and loving, longevity, and change [i]
  173. () Optimism in close relationships: how seeing things in a positive light makes them so [d]
  174. Anita L. Vangelisti & Daniel Perlman [ed] () The Cambridge handbook of personal relationships [i] [d]
  175. Kathleen D. Vohs & Eli J. Finkel [ed] () Self and relationships: connecting intrapersonal and interpersonal processes [i]
  176. () The paternalism of partnership: a postcolonial reading of identity in development aid [i]
  177. () Waking up together: intimate partnership on the spiritual path [i]
  178. () Mindfulness and marital satisfaction [d]
  179. () A life span developmental systems perspective on aggression toward a partner [i]
  180. () Becoming an emotionally focused couple therapist: the workbook [i] [d]
  181. () A relational-cultural model: healing through mutual empathy [p] [d]
  182. () Using diary methods to study marital and family processes [p] [d]
  183. () Couples therapy: a relational approach [i]
  184. () Problem-solving training for couples [i] [d]
  185. () Forging research partnerships across the academic–agency divide [d] [j]
  186. (/2012) Loving someone with bipolar disorder: understanding & helping your partner [i]
  187. () The autonomy myth: a theory of dependency [i]
  188. () The partnership charter: how to start out right with your new business partnership (or fix the one you're in) [i]
  189. () Bringing Zen practice home [d] [j]
  190. John M. Kamensky & Thomas J. Burlin [ed] () Collaboration: using networks and partnerships [i]
  191. Daniel J. Canary & Marianne Dainton [ed] () Maintaining relationships through communication: relational, contextual, and cultural variations [i] [d]
  192. () Maintaining friendships throughout the lifespan [i] [d]
  193. () Thinking of you: nonconscious pursuit of interpersonal goals associated with relationship partners [d]
  194. () Communication skills in couples: a review and discussion of emerging perspectives [i] [d]
  195. () Friendship interaction skills across the life-span [i] [d]
  196. Larraine Segil, Marshall Goldsmith, & James A. Belasco [ed] () Partnering: the new face of leadership [i]
  197. Thomas L. Sexton & Jay Lebow [ed] (/2016) Handbook of family therapy: the science and practice of working with families and couples [i] [d]
  198. John H. Harvey & Amy Wenzel [ed] () A clinician's guide to maintaining and enhancing close relationships [i] [d]
  199. () Partnerships, information and public safety: community policing in a time of terror [d]
  200. () The responsibility virus: how control freaks, shrinking violets—and the rest of us—can harness the power of true partnership [i]
  201. Donald W. Pfaff & Marian Joëls [ed] (/2017) Hormones, brain and behavior [i]
  202. () Communication, conflict, and commitment: insights on the foundations of relationship success from a national survey [p] [d]
  203. () Tea for two—creating in pairs [i]
  204. () The mismeasure of love: how self-doubt contaminates relationship beliefs [d]
  205. () The couple's survival workbook: what you can do to reconnect with your partner and make your marriage work [i]
  206. () Mediating family disputes in a world with domestic violence: how to devise a safe and effective court-connected mediation program [u]
  207. () Continuity in problems of social functioning in adulthood: a cumulative perspective [d]
  208. () Love's revolution: interracial marriage [i]
  209. () The collaboration challenge: how nonprofits and businesses succeed through strategic alliances [i]
  210. () Time and intimacy: a new science of personal relationships [i] [d]
  211. (/2014) Reconcilable differences: rebuild your relationship by rediscovering the partner you love—without losing yourself [i]
  212. Jude Cassidy & Phillip R. Shaver [ed] (/2016) Handbook of attachment: theory, research, and clinical applications [i]
  213. () Marriage and family consultation with ranch and farm families: an empirical family case study [d]
  214. () Fear of intimacy [i]
  215. Wyndol Furman, B. Bradford Brown, & Candice Feiring [ed] () The development of romantic relationships in adolescence [i]
  216. (/2005) Falling in love: why we choose the lovers we choose [i] [d]
  217. () Building relationships: developing skills for life [i]
  218. () Buddhist sexual ethics: main issues [or: Issues in Buddhist sexual ethics] [u]
  219. Kathryn Dindia & Daniel J. Canary [ed] (/2006) Sex differences and similarities in communication [i] [d]
  220. (/2006) Social role theory of sex differences and similarities: implication for prosocial behavior [i] [d]
  221. () Psychology and the study of marital processes [p] [d]
  222. () Emotional unavailability: recognizing it, understanding it, and avoiding its trap [i]
  223. () The intentional family: how to build family ties in our modern world [or: The intentional family: simple rituals to strengthen family ties] [i]
  224. () Everyday blessings: the inner work of mindful parenting [i]
  225. () The healing connection: how women form relationships in therapy and in life [i]
  226. () Marry your muse: making a lasting commitment to your creativity [i]
  227. (/2004) The practice of emotionally focused couple therapy: creating connection [i]
  228. () The self-fulfilling nature of positive illusions in romantic relationships: love is not blind, but prescient [d]
  229. () Emotional behavior in long-term marriage [d]
  230. (/2002) Developing mature relationships [i]
  231. Alan S. Gurman, Jay Lebow, & Douglas K. Snyder [ed] (/2015) Clinical handbook of couple therapy [i]
  232. (/2009) The lost art of listening: how learning to listen can improve relationships [i]
  233. Susan M. Johnson & Leslie S. Greenberg [ed] () The heart of the matter: perspectives on emotion in marital therapy [i]
  234. () The lenses of gender: transforming the debate on sexual inequality [i] [d] [j]
  235. () Argument in satisfied and dissatisfied married couples [i]
  236. (/2004) Women and gender: a feminist psychology [i]
  237. () The space between us: exploring the dimensions of human relationships [i]
  238. (/2008) Person to person: positive relationships don't just happen [i]
  239. () Sex in the parish [i]
  240. () Conjoint couple therapy in client-centered practice [i] [u]
  241. () Making a friend in youth: developmental theory and pair therapy [i]
  242. () A passion for friends: toward a philosophy of female affection [i]
  243. () Differential effects of experiential and problem-solving interventions in resolving marital conflict [p] [d]
  244. () Capacity for intimacy [i]
  245. G. Pirooz Sholevar [ed] () The handbook of marriage and marital therapy [i] [d]
  246. () Development of sex-role transcendence [p] [d] [j]
  247. () Growing up female: a personal photojournal [i]
  248. () Intimacy: pastoral psychological essays [o]
  249. (/1971) Self-disclosure: an experimental analysis of the transparent self [i]
  250. (/2010) The second sex [i]

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