How to converse courageously

From Crossing the Sacred Sea [Cruzando el mar sagrado] by Nathan A. Strait

  1. (2018) Standing at the edge: finding freedom where fear and courage meet [i]
  2. (2017) Disagreement as an opportunity, not a threat [book review] [d]
  3. (2016) When hurt remains: relational perspectives on therapeutic failure [i]
  4. (2016) From argumentative crisis to critical arguments: how to argue in the face of danger [i] [d]
  5. (2016) Difficult conversations [i] [d]
  6. (2016) Free speech: ten principles for a connected world [i]
  7. (2016) Alternatives to blame, powerlessness, recriminations, and stuckness in highly charged and entrenched conflicts [u]
  8. (2016) An everyone culture: becoming a deliberately developmental organization [i]
  9. (2016) Dangerous speech and dangerous ideology: an integrated model for monitoring and prevention [d] [u]
  10. (2016) Difficult dialogue between next of kin: a Brazilian perspective on obstacles to integration [d]
  11. (2016) The heart of the fight: a couple's guide to 15 common fights, what they really mean, & how they can bring you closer [i]
  12. (2015) The analyst's authenticity: 'if you see something, say something' [d]
  13. (2015) Get the truth: former CIA officers teach you how to persuade anyone to tell all [i]
  14. (2015) Constructive controversy: theory, research, practice [i] [d]
  15. (2015) Intellectual empathy: critical thinking for social justice [i]
  16. (2015) The conflict paradox: seven dilemmas at the core of disputes [i]
  17. (2015) 'I'm not a social worker': an information service model for working with patrons in crisis [for librarians] [d]
  18. (2014) So, what's your proposal?: shifting high-conflict people from blaming to problem-solving in 30 seconds! [i]
  19. (2014) Emotional change in international negotiation: analyzing the Camp David accords using cognitive–affective maps [d]
  20. (2014) Making business personal [u]
  21. (2014) Behavioral and emotional dynamics of two people struggling to reach consensus about a topic on which they disagree [d]
  22. (2014) Find out anything from anyone, anytime: secrets of calculated questioning from a veteran interrogator [i]
  23. (2014) Therapeutic collaboration and resistance: describing the nature and quality of the therapeutic relationship within ambivalence events using the Therapeutic Collaboration Coding System [d]
  24. (2014) Difficult conversations: talking with rather than talking at [d]
  25. (2014) Thanks for the feedback: the science and art of receiving feedback (even when it is off-base, unfair, poorly delivered, and frankly, you're not in the mood) [i]
  26. (2013) Invoking the authority of feelings as a strategic maneuver in family mealtime conversations [d]
  27. (2013) Blame: its nature and norms [i] [d]
  28. (2013) Conversations that get results and inspire collaboration: engage your team, your peers, and your manager to take action [i]
  29. (2013) Silence is not golden: review of studies of couple interaction [d]
  30. (2013) Dialogue & deliberation [i]
  31. (2013) Interpersonal communication perspectives in hostage negotiation [d]
  32. (2013) Refining expertise: how responsible engineers subvert environmental justice challenges [i]
  33. (2013) The nature of psychological reactance revisited: a meta-analytic review [d]
  34. (2013) Transforming negative reactions to clients: from frustration to compassion [i]
  35. (2012) Daring greatly: how the courage to be vulnerable transforms the way we live, love, parent, and lead [i]
  36. (2012) Nothing to add: the role of white silence in racial discussions [u]
  37. (2012) When friends deflect questions about sensitive information: questioners' cognitive complexity and explanations for friends' avoidance [d]
  38. (2012) The costs and benefits of arguing: predicting the decision whether to engage or not [i] [d]
  39. (2012) Help them grow or watch them go: career conversations employees want [i]
  40. (2012) 'What are you going to do with that major?': colloquial speech and the meanings of work and education [d]
  41. (2012) How to implement free, prior informed consent (FPIC) [u]
  42. (2012) Life-changing conversations: 7 strategies for talking about what matters most [i]
  43. (2012) Stressed by colleagues who disagree with you? [u]
  44. (2011) Dissenting in reflective conversations: critical components of doing action research [d]
  45. (2011) Speaking freely: my experiences in individual psychotherapies, group therapies, and growth groups [p] [d]
  46. (2011) The blame game: how the hidden rules of credit and blame determine our success or failure [i]
  47. (2011) 'I think we should take this offline...': conversational patterns that undermine effective decision making in action learning sets [d]
  48. (2011) Tacit knowledge structures in the negotiation process [i] [d]
  49. (2011) Learning through deepening conversations: a key strategy of insight mediation [d]
  50. (2011) What's happening in the coaching conversation with an executive at risk of derailing? [u]
  51. (2011) Rethinking conflict: perspectives from the insight approach [d]
  52. (2011) 'She's mean to me!': the shattering conclusion [u]
  53. (2011) Achieving forgiveness and trust in postconflict societies: the importance of self-disclosure and empathy [i] [d]
  54. (2010) Deliberation and diversity: perceptions of small group discussions by race and ethnicity [d]
  55. (2010) Catalytic conversations: organizational communication and innovation [i]
  56. (2010) Facilitated dialogues with teachers in conflict-ridden areas: in search of pedagogical openings that move beyond the paralysing effects of perpetrator–victim narratives [d]
  57. (2010) Students as learners and teachers: taking responsibility, transforming education, and redefining accountability [d]
  58. (2010) Self-disclosure in psychotherapy and recovery [i]
  59. (2010) Roles, caring and learning to teach science [d]
  60. (2010) Building a professional learning community at work: a guide to the first year [i]
  61. (2010) Religion that heals, religion that harms: a guide for clinical practice [i]
  62. (2010) The role of therapist self-disclosure in psychotherapy: a qualitative review [d]
  63. (2010) Facilitating conflict transformation: mediator strategies for eliciting emotional communication in a workplace conflict [d]
  64. (2010) 'Whose inquiry is this anyway?': money, power, reports, and collaborative inquiry [d]
  65. (2010) Coping with control and manipulation: making the difference between being a target and becoming a victim [i]
  66. (2010) Psychodynamic techniques: working with emotion in the therapeutic relationship [i]
  67. (2010) Eavesdropping on happiness: well-being is related to having less small talk and more substantive conversations [d]
  68. (2010) Answering patient questions about the role lifestyle factors play in cancer onset and recurrence [d]
  69. (2010) Nice teams finish last: the secret to unleashing your team's maximum potential [i]
  70. (2010) Why argue?: towards a cost–benefit analysis of argumentation [d]
  71. (2010) Dominance signals in debates [i] [d]
  72. (2010) Stop overreacting: effective strategies for calming your emotions [i]
  73. (2010) Partners in thought: working with unformulated experience, dissociation, and enactment [i]
  74. (2010) Keeping difficult situations from becoming difficult groups: dissenters need support, or the group risks going off track [i]
  75. (2009) Having hard conversations [i]
  76. (2009) Psychotherapy as a developmental process [i]
  77. (2009) Psychotherapist revealed: therapists speak about self-disclosure in psychotherapy [i]
  78. (2009) The problems with blaming [i] [u]
  79. (2009) The art of conversation: a guided tour of a neglected pleasure [i]
  80. (2009) Conversations between anthropologists and economists [i]
  81. (2009) The four conversations: daily communication that gets results [i]
  82. (2009) Constructing worlds together: interpersonal communication as relational process [i]
  83. (2009) The influence of diversity in clinical supervision: a framework for reflective conversations and questioning [d]
  84. (2009) Immunity to change: how to overcome it and unlock potential in yourself and your organization [i]
  85. (2009) What we say matters: practicing nonviolent communication [i]
  86. (2009) Psychology of liberation: theory and applications [i]
  87. (2009) On advocacy by environmental scientists: what, whether, why, and how [d]
  88. (2009) Sharing one's story: on the benefits of writing or talking about emotional experience [i] [d]
  89. (2009) When rejection sensitivity matters: regulating dependence within daily interactions with family and friends [d]
  90. (2009) I second that emotion!: on self-disclosure and its metaprocessing [i]
  91. (2009) Self-disclosure as a turning point in psychotherapy [i]
  92. (2009) Pain and defense versus grace and justice: the relational conflict and restoration model [d]
  93. (2009) Coping through emotional approach: emerging evidence for the utility of processing and expressing emotions in responding to stressors [i] [d]
  94. (2009) Self-deception and the therapist: an interpretative phenomenological analysis of the experiences and understandings of therapists working with clients they describe as self-deceptive [d]
  95. (2009) Communicating with Muslim parents: 'the four principles' are not as culturally neutral as suggested [d]
  96. (2009) The three marriages: reimagining work, self and relationship [i]
  97. (2008) Therapeutic movement and stuckness in family therapy [d]
  98. (2008) The zen of helping: spiritual principles for mindful and open-hearted practice [i]
  99. (2008) Time to try a little tenderness?: the detrimental effects of accountability when coupled with abusive supervision [d]
  100. (2008) Bold jaguars and unsuspecting monkeys: the value of fearlessness in Cofán politics [d]
  101. (2008) It's all your fault!: 12 tips for managing people who blame others for everything [i]
  102. (2008) Hold me tight: seven conversations for a lifetime of love [i]
  103. (2008) Narrators defend their side of the story metaphorically at troubled narrative junctions [d]
  104. (2008) End-of-life care: guidelines for patient-centered communication [p] [u]
  105. (2008) Expressing the unexpressed: self-disclosure as interactional achievement in the psychotherapy session [p]
  106. (2008) Some like it hot: teaching strategies for managing tactical versus genuine anger in negotiations [d]
  107. (2008) Conversational mindfulness [u]
  108. (2008) Teaching teachers to just say 'know': reflections on drug education [d]
  109. (2008) Toward psychologies of liberation [i] [d]
  110. (2008) From spheres of civility to critical public spheres: democracy and citizenship in the big house (Part I) [j]
  111. (2008) From spheres of civility to critical public spheres: democracy and citizenship in the big house (Part II) [j]
  112. (2007) Behind the mask: coaching through deep interpersonal communication [i]
  113. (2007/2012) Just culture: balancing safety and accountability [i]
  114. (2007) Recognizing the passion in deliberation: toward a more democratic theory of deliberative democracy [d]
  115. (2007) There's no such thing as public speaking: making any presentation or speech as persuasive as a one-on-one conversation [i]
  116. (2007) Join the conversation: how to engage marketing-weary consumers with the power of community, dialogue, and partnership [i]
  117. (2007) Conflict dialogue: working with layers of meaning for productive relationships [i]
  118. (2007) The power of story: rewrite your destiny in business and in life [i]
  119. (2007) Negotiation genius: how to overcome obstacles and achieve brilliant results at the bargaining table and beyond [i]
  120. (2007) The little book of dialogue for difficult subjects: a practical, hands-on guide [i]
  121. (2007) Small talk—big cure!: talking your way to a better life [i]
  122. (2007/2015) Mistakes were made (but not by me): why we justify foolish beliefs, bad decisions, and hurtful acts [i]
  123. (2007) The power of a positive No: how to say No and still get to Yes [i]
  124. (2007) Mindful relating: exploring mindfulness and emotion repertoires in intimate relationships [d]
  125. (2007) Don't just do something, stand there!: ten principles for leading meetings that matter [i]
  126. (2007) Human factors in project management: concepts, tools, and techniques for inspiring teamwork and motivation [i]
  127. (2006) Consensus through conversation: how to achieve high-commitment decisions [i]
  128. (2006) Self-disclosure in psychotherapy [i]
  129. (2006) Leading through conflict: how successful leaders transform differences into opportunities [i]
  130. (2006) When people care enough to act: ABCD in action [i]
  131. (2006) Fostering dialogue across divides: a nuts and bolts guide from the Public Conversations Project [o]
  132. (2006) Counseling as a practice of ethics: some implications for therapeutic education [d]
  133. (2006) Courageous conversations about race: a field guide for achieving equity in schools [i]
  134. (2006/2012) The people solutions sourcebook [i]
  135. (2006) Avoiding iatrogenic harm to patient and family while discussing goals of care near the end of life [d]
  136. (2006) Rhetoric and anger [j]
  137. (2005) Struggling with the fragility of life: a relational-narrative approach to ethics in palliative nursing [p] [d]
  138. (2005) Conversation as experiential learning [d]
  139. (2005) Interviewing and diagnostic exercises for clinical and counseling skills building [i]
  140. (2005) Divided over diversity: political discourse in a Chicago neighborhood [d]
  141. (2005) Waking up together: intimate partnership on the spiritual path [i]
  142. (2005) Moving beyond the comfort zone in psychotherapy [i]
  143. (2005) The World Café: shaping our futures through conversations that matter [i]
  144. (2005) Emotion-focused therapy for depression [i]
  145. (2005) Embracing confusion: what leaders do when they don't know what to do [d]
  146. (2005) The gift of self: the art of transparent facilitation [i]
  147. (2005) Respect: a girl's guide to getting respect and dealing when your line is crossed [i]
  148. (2005) New practices, new pedagogies: a reader [i]
  149. (2005/2013) Crucial accountability: tools for resolving violated expectations, broken commitments, and bad behavior [i]
  150. (2005) Taking conversation, dialogue, and therapy public [d]
  151. (2004) First impressions: what you don't know about how others see you [i]
  152. (2004) Talking with terminally ill patients and their caregivers about death, dying, and bereavement: is it stressful? Is it helpful? [d]
  153. (2004) The thin book of naming elephants: how to surface undiscussables for greater organizational success [i]
  154. (2004) Bringing Zen practice home [d]
  155. (2004) Confrontations with power: moving beyond the 'tyranny of safety' in participation [i]
  156. (2004) Emotional expression and health: advances in theory, assessment and clinical applications [i]
  157. (2004) From consent to mutual inquiry [d]
  158. (2004) Moving beyond the blame game: toward a discursive approach to negotiating conflict within couple relationships [d]
  159. (2004) Action inquiry: the secret of timely and transforming leadership [i]
  160. (2004) From discord to dialogue: internal voices and the reorganization of the self in process-experiential therapy [i]
  161. (2003) A life full of learning [d]
  162. (2003) Handbook of communication and social interaction skills [i]
  163. (2003) Improvised dialogues: emergence and creativity in conversation [i]
  164. (2003) Right risk: 10 powerful principles for taking giant leaps with your life [i]
  165. (2002) The worst is over: what to say when every moment counts [i]
  166. (2002) Shame: the elephant in the room [d]
  167. (2002) Mentor manager, mentor parent: how to develop responsible people and build successful relationships at work and at home [i]
  168. (2002/2012) Crucial conversations: tools for talking when stakes are high [i]
  169. (2001) Advancing a political ecology of global environmental discourses [d]
  170. (2001) Being upright: Zen meditation and the bodhisattva precepts [i]
  171. (2001) Getting real: the ten truth skills you need to live an authentic life [i]
  172. (2001) Working with anger [i]
  173. (2001) Getting over getting mad: positive ways to manage anger in your most important relationships [i]
  174. (2001) Anger: wisdom for cooling the flames [i]
  175. (2001) How the way we talk can change the way we work: seven languages for transformation [i]
  176. (2001) Creating conversations: improvisation in everyday discourse [i]
  177. (2001) Crossing the unknown sea: work as a pilgrimage of identity [i]
  178. (2000) One step further in assessing how interpretations influence the process of psychotherapy [d]
  179. (2000) Reaching for higher ground in conflict resolution: tools for powerful groups and communities [i]
  180. (2000/2014) Constructive controversy: the value of intellectual opposition [i]
  181. (2000) Creating harmonious relationships: a practical guide to the power of true empathy [i]
  182. (2000) Dangerous emotions [i]
  183. (2000) The shift in thinking to customer intimacy [i]
  184. (2000) New ways of thinking about environmentalism: denial and the process of moral exclusion in environmental conflict [d]
  185. (2000) Rhetorical power, accountability and conflict in committees: an argumentation approach [d]
  186. (2000) The art of focused conversation: 100 ways to access group wisdom in the workplace [i]
  187. (1999) Fear of intimacy [i]
  188. (1999) Bold analysis and associative dialogue: freedom and continuity in analytic discourse [d]
  189. (1999) Powerful conversations: how high-impact leaders communicate [i]
  190. (1999) Dialogue and the art of thinking together: a pioneering approach to communicating in business and in life [i]
  191. (1999) Have you ever?: questions about you, your friends, and your world [i]
  192. (1999) A safe place for dangerous truths: using dialogue to overcome fear & distrust at work [i]
  193. (1999) Difficult conversations: how to discuss what matters most [i]
  194. (1998) The spirit of regeneration: Andean culture confronting Western notions of development [i]
  195. (1998) Talking out of turn: notes on participation, learning and action in REFLECT [u]
  196. (1998) Learning in relationship: foundation for personal and professional success [i]
  197. (1998) Resolving conflicts among self-evaluative motives: positive experiences as a resource for overcoming defensiveness [d]
  198. (1997) A developmental perspective on psychotherapy process, psychotherapists' expertise, and 'meaning-making conflict' within therapeutic relationships: part II: dialectical thinking and psychotherapeutic expertise: implications for training psychotherapists and protecting clients from 'theoretical abuse' [d]
  199. (1997) A developmental perspective on psychotherapy process, psychotherapists' expertise, and 'meaning-making conflict' within therapeutic relationships: part I: a dialectical-constructivist view of human development, psychotherapy, and the dynamics of meaning-making conflict within therapeutic relationships [d]
  200. (1997) An examination of the constraints on mutual inquiry in a participatory action research project [d]
  201. (1997) The public dimension of scientific controversies [d]
  202. (1997) My eye, your face: a conversation [i]
  203. (1997) Leadership and the art of conversation: conversation as a management tool [i]
  204. (1997) The healing connection: how women form relationships in therapy and in life [i]
  205. (1996/2008) A complaint is a gift: recovering customer loyalty when things go wrong [i]
  206. (1996/2005) The fine art of small talk: how to start a conversation, keep it going, build networking skills, and leave a positive impression [i]
  207. (1996/1998) Be heard now!: tap into your inner speaker and communicate with ease [i]
  208. (1996) The power of empathic exploration: a process-experiential/gestalt perspective on the case of Jim Brown [i]
  209. (1996) The tension between empathy and assertiveness [d]
  210. (1996/2015) Crisis intervention handbook: assessment, treatment, and research [i]
  211. (1995) Can we talk?: on the elusiveness of dialogue [d]
  212. (1995/2002) Repacking your bags: lighten your load for the rest of your life [i]
  213. (1995) Nonabandonment: a central obligation for physicians [d]
  214. (1994) Working the shadow side: a guide to positive behind-the-scenes management [i]
  215. (1994) The community of those who have nothing in common [i]
  216. (1994) Intimacy & mission: intentional community as crucible for radical discipleship [i]
  217. (1994) Talking on the water: conversations about nature and creativity [i]
  218. (1993) Managing the violent patient: a clinician's guide [i]
  219. (1993) Silencing a people: the destruction of civil society in Haiti [i]
  220. (1993) Tailoring the therapeutic relationship, or being an authentic chameleon [d]
  221. (1993) Questions about questions: situating the therapist's curiosity in front of the family [i]
  222. (1993) How to deal with difficult people [i]
  223. (1993/2011) Therapeutic communication: knowing what to say when [i]
  224. (1993) Competence, courage, and change: an approach to family therapy [i]
  225. (1992) Values at work: transforming workplace values with compassion [u]
  226. (1991) Attachment styles and patterns of self-disclosure [d]
  227. (1990) The loss of wisdom [i]
  228. (1990) Active talk: the use of discussion in learning [i]
  229. (1990/1997) Opening up: the healing power of expressing emotions [i]
  230. (1988/2000) Prescription for anger: coping with angry feelings and angry people [i]
  231. (1987/2003) Playfulness, 'world'-travelling, and loving perception [i]
  232. (1984) Dialectical thinking and adult development [i]
  233. (1983/2001) How to start a conversation and make friends [i]
  234. (1982) Coping with crisis: understanding and helping people in need [i]
  235. (1982) Telling it like it isn't: language misuse & malpractice, what we can do about it [i]
  236. (1981) Straight talk: a new way to get closer to others by saying what you really mean [i]
  237. (1979) People skills: how to assert yourself, listen to others, and resolve conflicts [i]
  238. (1974/2008) Your perfect right: assertiveness and equality in your life and relationships [i]
  239. (1969/1993) The infinite conversation [i]
  240. (1964/1971) Self-disclosure: an experimental analysis of the transparent self [i]
  241. (1957) Pointing the way: collected essays [o] [u]
  242. (1937/1996) The importance of living [i]

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